REAL STORY

The wedding is not a goal-in.
It was the start of the family.

After wedding: 4th year

Did you both have a wedding theme or something like that?

wifeI was talking about how it would be better for people who came to enjoy it. It was Christmas Eve on the day of the wedding, so it feels like having a Christmas party. We hope that our guests will enjoy themselves, not just ourselves.

HusbandThere was a concept that we wanted to create a place where we could tell people who were indebted to us that we were here, and that we wanted to create a ceremony that would entertain those people.

I heard that this photo is displayed at home.

wifeYes, I'm decorating this photo at the front door of my house. It was a rain forecast on the day of the wedding. But gradually it started to clear up from the time this photo was taken. I could see the clear sky, so I thought I could take a good photo. I like this photo because I thought it was just like a jerk.

A letter has arrived from the wedding planner who made the wedding together.

"I'm really happy to have this kind of relationship over and over again. I'm full of gratitude for coming back to Plan Do See every year and coming to Kobe to see me. I pray for the happiness of my family for a long time. "

Do you remember the meeting until the day of the wedding?

HusbandI was impressed that I listened carefully and made a plan. I think it's well planned to make this kind of consciousness for the purpose. We hadn't even thought about it that much yet, so it feels like they guided us.

wifeI just love the atmosphere of the bridal salon, and I'm looking forward to being able to talk about weddings in that space every time, and as the wedding approaches, there will be only a few left. It was also a little lonely. That meeting was also happy. That is also a good memory.

How did the two of you feel when you actually had a wedding?

wifeI'm glad I did it.

HusbandBut at that moment, the time passed so quickly that I couldn't afford to say, "Oh, don't have a wedding." The guests were gathering on the day saying that they would go to the second party after the reception, but when they joined there, they heard about their impressions of the wedding ceremony and said, "I enjoyed it." I felt it.

wifeI simply had a lot of fun. I'm glad I found out that my loved ones are having a lot of fun. Since it was the end of the year, almost everyone wrote on the New Year's card that arrived after the wedding that the wedding was good anyway.

If there was a parallel life between the two who had a wedding and the two who did not have a wedding, would their future be different?

Husband I think it's different. I have a wedding here, and I'm coming for dinner for the anniversary, so I look back on the story each time. Without it, I would remember and fade away. I feel that it is a good place to be given a good opportunity to remember every year.

wifeIt means that it doesn't exist, if I didn't get married.

What did you think of after the wedding?

wifeI was invited to a friend's wedding only once after the wedding, but it was actually Conder House (a Nagoya store directly managed by Plan Do See). it was fun. When I attended the Conder House, it was a wedding ceremony at Corona, and it was the only wedding ceremony I attended after my wedding ceremony, but I thought, "It's really fun to get together." See you. I was attending with a mask, but I really like fashion, so I went to the hairdresser on that day, asked for a hair set, cleaned everything, made all the clothes for this child myself, and was called to perfect the fashion. My friends are dressed very beautifully, and all the guests are dressed very gorgeously.

You can't call it unless it's a wedding. Don't you bother to get together from afar? I'm very happy to be the one who said, "I'm afraid of Corona, but could you come to the wedding?" I think he was very careful and invited me. I'm just happy to hear that invitation. IsI have very good memories of the wedding and I know how I feel when preparing for it.That's why I decided that I would definitely dress beautifully. I think it's polite. I'm happy to be able to participate with that feeling, and I'm happy that a lot of people like that gather. I think it's wonderful that there is a beautiful venue, delicious food, and the same experience at the same place.Because I had a wedding ceremony, I wanted to be called more. I want more people to have a wedding.

I heard that the letter from here was the trigger for reading each other's letters on the anniversary of each anniversary.

Husband You participated in a workshop called "How to Make the Best Family" that you participate in after your wedding. At that time, I didn't have the habit of writing letters, but when I was asked, "Why don't you try writing letters?" ,happyis not it. If so, I'm thinking of trying more and more with the other party, so I'll do my best to write it.

wifeThat workshop was fun, wasn't it? It was a lot of fun. First of all, I'm glad I came to the venue. The documents I used at the workshop at that time were in the bookshelf of my house, and when I saw them with some rhythm, I was like "Wow!". It feels like a time capsule. I was thinking like this at that time. But on the other hand, there is not much difference in feelings from now.
What I thought at the workshop on how to make the best family is that weddings are often expressed in the form of a goal-in, but I thought at that workshop that it was a complete start, and I still strongly think that. increase. That was the start. The family startedSo I thought so.
This is an important place in the sense that the family startedI think. There was a work "What kind of family would you like to be in 3 or 5 years?" And at that time he wrote, "I will be in a busy department after 3 years." That was exactly the case.
I think they were talking about that, "I'm doing what I expected."
In that senseDecemberＭon. is the starting point for us and that is the startand. Every year we have dinner on our wedding anniversary, take pictures, and decorate the pictures in the hallways of our houses. There are four now. That's why I want to keep doing that. I think it was a start when I wanted to carve such things like an archive. As a start, there is the first photo I talked about today.

A family photo is posted in the corridor of the house, and it looks like a family track.

wifeThat's right. Therefore, I want you to continue to be a wonderful place here.

Finally. The two have already started as a new family, but please give a word to the baby in your stomach that is about to be born.

wifeI'm really looking forward to being born well. Make friends with your brother. When you are born inＭon., you are like that. When I was born inＭon. I will be Koyuki-chan. I wonder which one it will be. What a name it will be. I'm happy to have taken this kind of thing two weeks before I was born. I'm thrilled.

HusbandIt would be nice if I could do something here again if I was born safely. At the beginning of eating, I'll do it again at Kawabun.