REAL STORY

At the time when I thought about the words of the wedding vow,
I came to care more about the other person

6 months after the wedding

What kind of day was that day?

MayukaThere are only days like that, such as being able to convey your feelings or being told congratulations. I think it's only that day. My family seemed to have a lot of fun, so I enjoyed watching it. Also, my grandparents are jumping. I was very happy. Have fun with your favorite people.

YumaI was so happy to see her. As soon as I got here in the morning and entered the venue, everyone prepared for me. Just by looking at the atmosphere of the venue, she said, "Wow, it's just like the image! It's amazing." Just looking at her expression made me feel very happy. She seemed so happy that she never rested with her loved ones, laughing all the time and crying happily. Just looking at her made me feel very happy on the day. Isn't there a day when I've been watching her so happy expression all the time? It was a happy day.

What was the value of your wedding ceremony?

YumaA place where she, who is loved by many people, tells them that she is important and loves them. That was the reason for me to have a wedding.

Do you remember the first meeting with your planner, a personal meeting?

MayukaI thought I knew myself because I wouldn't hear about myself so much, but I noticed a lot. I was able to organize it, soIt became clear that it would be better for them to take good care of this place during the wedding ceremony, and that the purpose was clear.That's why I thought that the first time was very important. So if I thought I had a wedding without having that personal meeting, I think it would have been a very thin wedding. For example, if you just made a meaningless production or decided for no purpose, I think it wouldn't have been that day. If there is such a meaning, I wonder if I should make this layout or seating order, I wonder if this course is good for cooking, I wonder if this color of flowers is like two people. I was convinced that they all had meaning.

How was your wedding?

MayukaYou should definitely do it. My brother still says, "Mayuka's wedding was insanely good. Everything made sense." That's why my brother highly recommends this place to his friends after that. Saying, "You should list it where your sister mentioned it." So it seems that my brother's friend actually went to the venue after that, and he made a reservation.
After having a wedding, I spend more time with my family and go to my parents' house almost every day to eat. After that, I didn't quarrel with him at all after the wedding.
At the time of the meeting, he knew each other, and he could see that I wanted to be such a person or a family like this.So what was frustrating in the old days, why didn't you do this? I didn't think of anything at all. I was able to spend a very calm time and no longer quarrel.

Does the fact that they no longer quarrel after the wedding have an effect on their wedding preparations or somewhere on the day?

Mayuka I think it's a word of oath. In the words of the oath that I will convey during the wedding ceremony, I thought about what the other person would be like to me, what I would like to be like, and for that reason I would like to be like this.So even after the wedding, I thought, "Oh, I told everyone at that time." He said he would swear not only to me but also to my family, and he swore to my family as well. The word of oath itselfI think it's probably more time to think about it than it is. I wrote it thinking that it wasn't like that, thinking about the other person all the time. Thinking about it made me want to take good care of him.

YumaFor me, when I think about the words of oath, it's based on what I've done so far, but I thought it was an image of thinking about the future. When I was thinking about the future through what I had done so far, I thought that each of these responses was different, and I wanted to be like this for my precious girlfriend. It feels like that has been organized. Rather than having a quarrel because of that,I think the way they face each other has changed.

It was said that the words of the oath were kept secret until the day, but how was it when you were communicating with each other on the day?

MayukaIsn't it an ordinary letter? It's the same as I felt when I was proposed. He read the letter when he proposed, but I wonder if he could explain that he had never felt it before, wow! In my heart. I felt the same when I heard the words of his vow.

YumaThe composition I talked about first talked to the people in attendance who had been important to her life so far. Then you talked to her, didn't you? I wasn't crying when I was talking to the people in attendance, but I couldn't stop crying when I was talking to her. Looking back on that, I was talking about something like "I've done this so far, so I've reflected on it, and I'll do it from now on", so I wonder if I'm sorry until now. I thought I.

MayukaHe doesn't always cry. I rarely cry, and I don't cry in public.

At the end of the reception, I heard that an answer letter was produced.

MayukaWe also wrote a letter to everyone, and at the end, we asked everyone to write what they felt on the spot in the form of an answer letter. I was very happy to see it after the wedding. I was very happy to deepen the bond among us at that time and to make the guests who came to feel like meeting important people after our reception. I was thinking. But you don't know if it has arrived. But in that answer letter, there are so many people who feel like "I want to see my family" or "I thought I wouldn't say thank you to my important boyfriend", and that's really great. I was happy.

YumaI also read the answer letter of the guest on her side, but I felt that she was loved by the people around her. And above allWhen I tell them that they are important, they also want to tell that they are important around them. I thought that this chain was the power and value of the wedding ceremony.

If you had a parallel life between two people who had a wedding and two who didn't, how would you think it would be different?

MayukaWhen I'm not having a wedding, I don't know when I'm having a wedding, so I think that makes me happy as a couple. butBecause I got married, I realized that I thought that the other person was more important, I could thank the people around me, and I didn't notice.So, I think we could have been happy together without having a wedding, but it's a waste. I've noticed it because I had a wedding, so I'm really glad I did it.

Yuma Having a wedding enriches your life, so in many ways.I wonder if it wasn't there. I don't know until I try it.
We're especially so, but it's important to say that guests are important and grateful. But if you don't say that, it's hard to tell. Unexpectedly, everyone is a stranger, so I don't say that I'm with them but think about that person, usually. Isn't it difficult to make in everyday life? It may be embarrassing, but it's not embarrassing if it's a wedding ceremony. The way we get involved after the wedding is completely different.
Also, it would be nice to have an anniversary. It's nice to have good memories. I'll always drink with it (laughs). Isn't it nice to have nostalgic memories? It's the best memory.

What do you think you got from having a wedding?

YumaEven if we become grandpas and grandmas, we hold hands and talk about love love, and there is no particular blurring about that. just,After the wedding, the vision of the future that we had been thinking about alone seems to be increasing, as if people around us, such as friends and family, are with us.I'm trying to have a wonderful time for her as a husband. Most of the time, I thought about taking her to her favorite place, for example, doing something together. But after the wedding, I started to think that it would be better to have her friends there. Rather than doing something special with me, I feel that spending time with her, me, and her dear friends makes me happy. When I think about future plans, I often think that way.

Finally, the two have already started a new family, but please give a message to the newborn child who is now in the stomach.

MayukaYou will be born well. It grows up quickly. Straight. You can leave it as it is. You can leave it as it is.

YumaProtect my mom no matter what happens from me. Whatever happens. That's it. Therefore, you can do anything if you do it. As a man. That's it (laughs).