REAL STORY

Vows sworn on the day of the wedding
"I want to aim for a married couple with a total of 100 points"

6 months after the wedding

Looking back, how was your wedding day?

Mr. AkariI was too nervous to remember. I cried too much...lol. When I see my best friends sitting together in one place, it makes me cry and cry. I'm happy that there are children with whom I've shared painful things and fun things until now. I wanted everyone to have fun, but I think I ended up having the most fun.

MingMy wife and I are on good terms, but I was moved by the fact that groups of people who had no contact with each other met in one place! said my wife.

Mr. AkariEven though we were friends for the first time, we became good friends. We got along well at the table, and the fact that we were able to form a circle there was something that made me happy at the wedding.

The ceremony was public ceremony. When you entered the event, I think you were asked for the first time by the moderator, Mr. Sakata, about "the thoughts of Mr. Akari's parents from his parents."

Mr. AkariMy parents sent it to me when I left home to go get married. At that time, my parents were crying at home. At that time, I was wondering what kind of tears those were. When I was born, I was a girl, so my father seemed to have a sense of determination, saying, ``This child will also be married someday.'' My mother seemed to think that I was the mediator in the family, and she thought of me that way. I was happy.

How is your family after that? Do you think there will be any changes?

Mr. AkariAt the wedding, I was able to hear each other's feelings, and then I started talking to my parents. I think having a child has a lot to do with it, but we now go out together more often, and now I can talk to my parents and express my feelings.

At the wedding ceremony, the words of the vows were also created by the words of the two of you. How was that?

MingInstead of reading the words in the template, we were supposed to come up with our own vows from scratch. In that vow, we said, ``We want to aim for a couple with 100 points together. I still have that thought, so it's been about a year and a half since the wedding ended, but I wonder if I still have that thought.

Mr. AkariOn the other hand, in my vow, the two of us thought together and decided on the words "Total 100 points", but recently I've forgotten about those words. Recently, I thought I was asking too much of my husband. Recently, I was looking back at the wedding DVD, and when I heard the vows at that time, I thought, "Ah, that's right. It would be nice if we both aimed for 100 points, but one of us was too much." So, coming here, I was saved by the words of my oath.

Once again, if the lives of two people who have not married are parallel, what kind of differences do you think there would be in the two of you?

MingI'm not the kind of person who often expresses my feelings of gratitude or affection on a daily basis. If so, I'm the kind of person who only does it on anniversaries, so in that sense I think it's nice to have one more anniversary. Also, I think it was good because I think it was well-defined as a break of "I got married".

Mr. AkariWhen I think of my wedding, I think of the smiling faces of my friends and family. So that time was the best day of my life and I can't think of it. I think it was a good opportunity to express my gratitude to the people who took care of me. If it wasn't for that, I would probably be very envious of people who have weddings. I might be saying all the time lol, "I want to have a wedding."

MingWhen thinking about whether or not to have a wedding, I think that there are Fri. aspects and embarrassment, but in terms of Fri., of course, the Fri. was not small, but We both thought it was worth the Fri., so we didn't regret what we did.

Mr. AkariAfter doing it, I thought it was worth it, and it was worth it.

MingI think it was a good memory for my wife, and I think that the feeling of being happy to have a wedding will remain with me for the rest of my life, so I think that's more important to me.

After the wedding, what kind of couple and family do you want to become?

Mr. AkariI want to be a couple with 100 points together. From now on, I would like to live my life without forgetting to express my gratitude to my husband and those around me.

MingWe have different characteristics, so I hope we can complement each other. I'm not very good at expressing gratitude, but I'm keenly aware of the importance of conveying that, so I'd like to show the two of us how to express gratitude to others for the sake of our children.